分居或离异之后最耗人的，往往不是大的原则问题，是每周都要重新协商一次「这周谁接、谁送、周末在谁那儿」。每一次重新协商都是一次冲突机会，而孩子全程在场。 这里先把能确定的部分固定下来：选一个轮换模式和起始日，工具排出四周的逐日归属表和每一次交接的时间点，双方拿同一张表对。再加上五条交接规则——它们看起来琐碎，但迟到怎么算、东西谁带、能不能让老人代接，恰恰是冲突最高发的地方。 工具不判断谁该多带、不评价任何一方。$3 解锁节假日与寒暑假的分配规则、重大决定与费用分摊条款、只谈事不吵架的沟通模板，以及按孩子年龄给的告知脚本。After a separation, the exhausting part usually isn't the big principles — it's renegotiating every week who collects, who drops off, whose weekend it is. Every renegotiation is another chance to fight, and the child is present for all of them. This fixes what can be fixed: pick a rotation and a start date, and get a four-week day-by-day table plus every handover, so both parents hold the same sheet. Then five handover rules — they look trivial, but lateness, who packs what, and whether a grandparent can collect are exactly where conflict happens. The tool doesn't judge who should have more time or evaluate either parent. $3 unlocks holiday and school-break allocation, decision-making and cost-sharing clauses, low-conflict message templates, and age-appropriate scripts for telling the child.
节假日与寒暑假的分配规则（含逐年轮换写法）+ 重大决定谁拍板与费用分摊口径 + 低冲突沟通模板（只谈事的消息写法与三种常见挑衅的接法）+ 按孩子年龄的告知脚本。Holiday and school-break allocation with a year-on-year alternation rule, decision-making authority and cost-sharing terms, low-conflict message templates including how to answer three common provocations, and age-appropriate scripts for telling the child.
本工具生成的是供双方讨论的时间安排草案，不是法律文件，不构成法律意见，也不判断任何一方的抚养能力或应得的时间比例。要具有约束力通常需要通过协议、调解或法院程序确认，具体按你所在法域。若存在家庭暴力、威胁、药物滥用或其他安全顾虑，共同抚养的常规安排并不适用，请优先寻求专业与法律帮助。涉及孩子意愿的表达应由专业人士评估，不要让孩子在父母之间做选择。你填写的内容不入库。This produces a scheduling draft for discussion. It is not a legal document, not legal advice, and makes no assessment of either parent's capacity or entitlement. Making an arrangement binding usually requires agreement, mediation or a court, depending on your jurisdiction. Where there is domestic violence, threats, substance misuse or other safety concerns, standard shared-care arrangements do not apply — seek professional and legal help first. A child's wishes should be assessed by professionals; do not ask a child to choose between parents. Nothing you enter is stored.